PowerBlogs: Jasmine Doobay

Did a photo shoot for www.motorcygalz.com We have a new “galz”…Kathy Hubble…you’ll be seeing and hearing lots more from Kathy in coming months.

It was so stinkin’ hot last night…but we did an amazing session with Tim Swanky (www.swankyphotographic.com) and I took some pics of him taking pics…

More pics at www.motorcygalz.com

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Sports are great, but let’s be honest … They take a lot of work.

It’s much easier to watch sports and to play sports video games.

For those of you who spend more time PRETENDING to play sports with video games than you actually do playing them in the hot sun, here’s a list of the best sports video games of all time. Let the debates begin:

10. Gran Turismo
9. Super Tecmo Bowl
8. Mike Tyson’s Punch Out
7. FIFA: Road to World Cup
6. Wii Sports
5. Mortal Kombat
4. Tiger Woods PGA Tour
3. NBA JAM
2. Madden NFL Football
1. EA Sports NHL

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Everybody tells little white lies at high school reunions. But, why stop there? You’re not going to see these people again for 10 years. Maybe 20. Maybe never.

If you’ve got nothing better going in life, why not have some fun and tell some whoppers.

According to EgoTVOnline.com, here are some lies you should try at your next high school reunion:

In College You Dabbled In Porn — You can probably one-up everyone’s crazy college stories by admitting you put yourself through school by doing skin flicks.

On Graduation Night, You Slept With A Teacher — In light of the fact that so many female teachers are getting it on with their male students these days, you can probably convince your classmates that you got it on in her car in the school parking lot.

You Were Drunk/Stoned Every Day Of Senior Year — You can blame every stupid thing you did and said in high school on booze. Just say you got lit up every morning and stumbled your way through that last year of school.

That Guy You Hated? He’s Not a Guy Anymore — It’s been a long time but you still hate him. Since he isn’t at the reunion, you can explain how you bumped into him after his “operation.” He/She isn’t looking too bad … if you’re into that sort of thing.

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Some researchers now say that psychedlic drugs like LSD and Ecstasy, when taken under professional supervision and combined with therapy, can help patients battle depression.

Researchers are also looking to see if “magic mushrooms” might also be the answer for anxiety and other mental-health problems.

“It can speed up psychotherapy,” says Stephen Ross, an addiction expert at New York University. “Their defenses are lowered, and they have enormous access to unconscious material.”

I don’t know about you, but I can feel a nip in the air.  I know it was hot yesterday and it’s going to be again today…but at 3:30 when I come to work…it’s freekin’ cool…especially if I’m riding the bike.

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The “big” radio boss came to visit the station yesterday and we had a bbq.  The good news…we’re all still employed…the bad news…actually…there wasn’t any bad news.

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Was supposed to take a motorcycle 101 training program yesterday…sorry Bernie…I had to bail…getting up at 2:55am kills me some days…and yesterday was one of them…I passed out after a 12 hour work day and just couldn’t get going again.

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If you’re in a relationship, it’s guaranteed that there will be fights.

The pain inflicted from these arguments can be minimized by simply not being a jerk.

Here are some tips on how to keep that jerk-factor to a minimum:

1. Right Time, Right Place — Don’t start an argument unless you have at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted time ahead and you’re in a place where you can talk openly.

2. No Right and Wrong — Don’t try to convince your partner you are right. Your goal is to get your partner to empathize, so just stick to talking about your feelings, values, dreams and goals.

3. Find Your Calm — Calm yourself before you begin talking. Although studies show that yelling is better than stonewalling, other studies show that when people yell, they get themselves even angrier.

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Most gas stations offer at least 3 different grades of fuel. Lots of people think higher grade fuel makes their car run better, but it’s not true. Cars are made to accept a certain fuel grade, so if your owner’s manual says your car needs regular gas, feeding it premium won’t give you better performance. However, using regular gas in an engine that calls for premium could cause major damage, so check your owner’s manual.

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It used to be that when a guy had a mid-life crisis, he dumped his wife, started dating his secretary — and bought his first Corvette.

These days, guys are holding onto their wives and staying away from the expensive cars.

So, how are they lashing out? They’re buying expensive bikes. Not motorcycles. Bikes. Like, the ones you pedal.

Retail analyst Mintel has found that more and more men are buying top-of-the-line racing bikes, with the biggest growth in cycle sales coming from 35- to 45-year-old family men.

They’re also setting athletic goals like running marathons, climbing mountains and competing in triathlons.

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Some of you may be an only child, but the majority of us have at least one sibling. In fact, research shows that about 80 percent of us have brothers or sisters. But did you know that your siblings actually play a huge role in determining what type of person you are?
For instance, did you know that having older brothers actually increases your odds of being gay? It sounds ridiculous but science says it’s true. A report published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences states that each boy a mother gives birth to is 33 percent more likely to be gay.

Siblings can make you shorter. A study of 14,000 British children found that those with three siblings were, on average, about one inch shorter.

Older siblings are smarter. Researchers found that, on average, the eldest sibling scored three points higher on an IQ test.

Older siblings live longer. It all has to do with the fact that mom was younger when she had your older siblings. Studies show that for women, the firstborn child is three times more likely to make it to 100 than the seventh sister. And for men, the firstborn is twice as likely to reach 100 as brothers born fourth through sixth.

But there’s some good news for younger siblings. It turns out that you have more sex than your older brothers and sisters. Studies suggest that having an older sibling of the opposite sex increases your social skills.

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According to sex researcher and author Judy Dutton, women get revved up in a big way when they smell a combination of cucumbers and Good & Plenty. Sure, it’s a weird combination, but it’s scientifically proven to work.

When it comes to guys, pumpkin pie mixed with lavender is a big winner.

Judy Dutton discovered and reported on in her book Secrets from the Sex Lab is based on actual, honest-to-goodness clinical research — and not urban myths.

Some other examples discussed in the book include cases of people who get ear-gasms and eyebrow-gasms — as well as the difference in the brain waves between love and lust.

…so with any luck I’ll get that video from Off the Grid edited a bit today…or at least post some pics from the last few weeks.

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The contractors have dug up the road…just outside our road for installation of the new sewer system.  I almost cried as I rode home yesterday…feel like I have to put the bike away because the road is so torn up…it’s going to be death defying to motorcycle on.

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Hit a large bucket of balls at Two Eagles in the afternoon…ouch my aching everything.  Who knew golf could hurt so much?  I’ve made a little headway in the Bob and Jazz Golf Challenge.  Bob is going to kick my ass when it comes to the playoff…but at least I’m on the fairway about 50% of the time now…instead of just 20%.  Brody is an amazing teacher and incredibly patient.  Next lesson Thursday.

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Chances are if you know a teenager, they have a texting habit. A new study shows that some teens send more than a thousand messages a month and for some, the habit has crossed the line into an addiction. Doctors say that texting can provide instant gratification to the brain’s pleasure center that releases the mood-improving chemical dopamine, but such a feeling can lead to abuse. Some teens may even experience withdrawal symptons if they try to stop texting cold turkey.

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According to a new study from Washington State University, people hate working with do-gooders.

Co-workers who volunteer for every task and thanklessly take on the annoying details nobody else wants to deal with are also the ones who would be the first to be “voted off the island.”

Lead author Craig Parks found that unselfish co-workers come to be resented because they raise the bar for what is expected of everyone.

As a result, workers feel the new standard will make everyone else look bad.

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In a recent survey, AskMen.com asked some questions about guys and money:

Would you be in a relationship with a woman who has a higher income than you?

85 percent — Yes, it wouldn’t bother me.
9 percent — I already am.
6 percent — No, I wouldn’t be comfortable.

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More and more studies are showing that men are struggling with male menopause.

Health officials say that more than five million men are currently affected by the hormone imbalance that causes symptoms of fatigue, mood swings, decreased desire for sex, hair loss, lack of concentration and weight gain.

It all boils down to testosterone. When testosterone production slows, guys suffer through big time mental and physical changes.

There is hope, though. When male menopause is diagnosed, doctors are able to help some guys out by putting them on hormone replacement therapy where they get doses of testosterone through pellet implants, gels, patches and injections.

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A chain of fitness centers is now hosting cocktail hours after its intense boot camp training classes.

That’s right … Instead of finishing up a workout and chugging bitter shots of wheatgrass, members are able to belly up to the bar and order vodka.

“Sweat and alcohol are both great social lubricants,” said David Barton, founder of the David Barton Gym. So, he has combined them.

“I want people to find the gym not just a place to work out, but a good hang as well,” Barton said.

“It’s a little weird to serve bourbon or Scotch,” Barton said of why he chose vodka. “Tequila might seem out of control. Vodka seems like the right complement to the gym.”

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Even if you’re not an online gamer, you probably have heard of World of Warcraft. It’s a hugely popular role playing game, sort of like Dungeons and Dragons back in the day.

And, like Dungeons and Dragons, World of Warcraft is played mostly by geeks.

Well, the geeks are getting a little kinky out there in World of Warcraft-land, to the point where the company that owns the game is now going to be patrolling the different worlds and chat rooms.

Blizzard, the company that runs World of Warcraft, has announced that it’s going to be much stricter about monitoring and disciplining players who engage in erotic roleplay.

The announcement was a result of a father who came into his son’s room and saw a rather unsavory chat on his kids’ computer.

The kid was interacting in the Goldshire area of the game, which is an area that players reach fairly early. And now, it has become notorious for cybersex and crude behavior.

We’ll see how much of the kinky chat can be shut down …

Or is it the full moon.  My nose is itchy…my eyes red…I’m sneezing like crazy…but I don’t feel like I have a cold…which means it might be allergies…but for the life of me I can’t figure out what I’m allergic too.  It kind of sucks and I’d rather suffer than have to take drugs every day. 

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Had a great weekend…but it went by way too fast.  Friday…just vegged and watched Alice in Wonderland with the family.  Had trouble following it in the beginning…not sure if I was just too tired but the language seemed garbled and hard to follow.  Managed to stay up thru it all…which is pretty amazing for me.

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Saturday, hit the downtown core early at the Curling Rink to see the gang that were doing the Ride to the Rock.  Met some fabulous people from all over Canada and the States and I understand the ride was beautiful…perfect weather.  They my bud Kathy and I went for a two wheelin cruise out to Lake Country and back…such a pretty ride along Commonage…except for that stretch of gravel…that tested my nerves.

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Over to another friends for a pot-luck party Saturday night.  Thanks Brad and Nicole…yummy and burp…I always eat too much at those…but it was great!!!

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Went Cosmic Bowling at McCurdy Lanes with the family yesterday!  Too much fun!!! Sunday’s 2-5 and it’s all families…great time!!!

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You can’t police behavior or mother everyone, but if you’re throwing the party, there are ways you can prevent your friends from drinking and driving …

Be up front about your drinking policy

Have a number of a taxi service posted

Limit servings

Have plenty of non-alcoholic options

Stop serving drinks and hour before the party is over

Serve food at the end of the party

Let people stay the night

Take their keys

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According to a new study, there is no such thing as a Cougar.

That’s right. All this noise we’ve been hearing about women over the age of 40 on the prowl for younger men is all a bunch of bunk.

Michael Dunn from the University of Wales Institute has just released a study in which he insists the cougar craze is just a myth.

He looked at the age preferences listed in 22,400 singles ads and found no evidence of older women seeking younger men.

On the other hand, he did find that an overwhelming number of women wanted men their own age or older.

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Energy drinks promise better athletic performance and weight loss — but do the claims hold up?

Not always, say researchers at Nova Southeastern University in Florida.

Energy drinks typically contain a bunch of stuff like taurine, sucrose, guarana, ginseng, niacin and pyridoxine.

But at the end of the day, the biggest thing that the drinks offer is caffeine. Caffeine has been consistently been observed to enhance aerobic performance.

And, don’t forget these drinks are often loaded with sugar. Despite their use for weight loss, energy drinks may be contributing to the obesity epidemic alongside less caffeinated, sugary drinks like soda.

So, if you’re really just looking for an athletic boost, consider just chugging a quick cup or two of coffee.

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According to a new study from Boston University, Italian kids whose parents allowed them to have alcohol with meals while they were growing up are less likely to develop harmful drinking patterns in the future.

The researchers found that the introduction of a moderate amount of alcohol in a family setting prevents young people from binge drinking and nurtures healthier drinking behaviors.

“Young people allowed alcohol with meals when growing up were more likely to never drink five or more drinks or get drunk,” said study author Lee Strunin. “If they did drink more heavily, it was typically at a later age than participants who weren’t allowed alcohol in a family setting.”

Great news from a Norwegian study…

Moderate consumption of booze has been connected with better performance on cognitive tests. In other words, booze makes you smarter.

But, these results are not earth shattering.

Results from dozens of studies over the past three decades has shown an association between moderate alcohol intake and cognitive function. Most studies show an association between booze and better cognitive function and reduced risk of dementia.

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The Weekday Vegetarian concept is as easy as it sounds: Be a vegetarian during the week, and eat meat on the weekends.

Even hardcore vegetarian purists think it’s a good idea. The President of PETA says, “Anybody who witnesses the suffering of animals and has a glimmer of hope of reducing that suffering can’t take the position that it’s all or nothing. We have to be pragmatic. Screw the principle.”

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Married life is great, right? You’ve always got a cheerleader or champion handy. But what about the day-to-day and new relationships? Everyone could use someone in their corner, even if it’s just a down day or an ice-cream emergency.

Here are six simple ways to be supportive:

1. When they have an important day at work … Sure, he doesn’t look stressed. He hasn’t said he’s stressed. But c’mon, he’s stressed. Don’t ask questions that re-inforce stress (like, “Are you ready?”) ask “How are you feeling about…?” Now you’ve opened a door so they can express their feelings. Remind them of their accomplishments. Rah rah!

2. When they had a bad day … Her boss yelled at her, he spilled coffee on a favorite shirt. So what if it’s silly — haven’t you ever had a melt-down over nothing? Offer your support, like a hug, shoulder rub or glass of wine. And let them have their stupid mood; it doesn’t have anything to do with you, so don’t take it personally.

3. When they have a big decision to make … Offering to talk it out is different from offering to decide for them, or even give your input. Have them explain the pros and cons to you — talking about it will help them see more clearly,

4. When they have a family problem … Family issues aren’t optional, and they’re not yours. Ask if there is anything you can do to help. You probably can’t, except by expressing your willingness to help if you could.Get it? Being there, listening — those are the things you can do.

5. When they’re mad at you … Ever been through a break up? You know that part where all you want to do is talk to your “best friend” — aka the person who just broke your heart?? Well, that’s kinda what fights are like, except you get to repair the rift. Be respectful, don’t shut them out, and try to show them you’re still a team — even if you need a time out to collect your thoughts.

6. When they’re having financial trouble … If you’re not sharing a checkbook, you aren’t sharing a problem … so don’t be nosy; be sure to let your partner come to you if times seem tough. And don’t loan out money you expect back.

The most important thing in any tough situation is that your partner knows you’re there for them.

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In a recent survey, AskMen.com asked some questions about guys and paranoia:

If you had the ability to, would you track your partner’s physical movement (with a GPS implant, for example)?

81 percent — No
8 percent — Yes, but only if she didn’t know about it
8 percent - Yes, but only if she agreed to it
3 percent - Yes, absolutely

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According to ForkParty.com, here are some world records nobody wants to hold:

World Record of Sneezing — A woman holds the record with 977 consecutive days.

The Largest Tumor — It took 12 surgeons six hours to remove the record 300-pound tumor from a very unlucky woman.

Most Years Hiccupping — A man hiccupped non-stop for the last 69 years of his life, no doubt having tried every crazy cure ever invented.

Largest Kidney Stone — A tiny kidney stone, the size of a fingernail clipping, is enough to bring a man to his knees. How about a 21-ounce monster?

Largest Object Removed from Skull — A man survived with an 8-inch survival knife embedded in his brain. He explained that he “… didn’t feel the pain initially and it was only when I was at the hospital that it hit me and I felt like my eyes were bulging out.”

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At best, Facebook is a great, fun way to keep in touch with your friends and family. The worst thing about it is, maybe, it’s a time-waster that keeps you from doing more important stuff.

That is, unless it actually costs you money.

According to GenXFinance.com, Facebook can actually hit you in the wallet in these ways:

Employment — Employers are now using social media sites to check up on prospective new hires. If they see something they disapprove of, it could cast a negative light on you and keep you from getting a job.

Tax and Debt Collection — The IRS and debt collection agencies are using new methods to hunt down people who aren’t paying their fair share. If you’re cheating on your taxes or trying to escape a debt, the last thing you want to do is bring attention to it online even if you think only your friends are listening.

Friends and Family — When friends and family see your status update about getting a raise, they’ll start looking for you to pick up the check when you’re out to eat. Or worse, they’ll ask you to co-sign a loan with them, which can mean big trouble for your credit if they don’t pay.

Online Scams — In the past, email was the preferred method of scamming people online. Now, there are Facebook viruses and people posting fake contests on Twitter everyday, and it’s easy to get caught up in these scams.

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One of the most famous novels in American history is Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger.

Salinger is an especially famous novelist because he wrote this one highly successful novel — and then spent the rest of his life trying to stay away from the spotlight, becoming a weird recluse.

Well, now you can own J.D. Salinger’s … toilet.

That’s right. J.D. Salinger’s toilet is up for sale on eBay for the low, low price of one million dollars.

It will reportedly be delivered to you “uncleaned and in it’s original condition” when it was removed from Salinger’s old home.

Don’t miss your chance to own a piece of history …

Had a brilliant day on the water yesterday with Off the Grid. 

If you’ve ever wanted to waterski, wakeboard or wakesurf…this is the crew to hook up with!

Great instruction, very fun and friendly and what a freekin’ beautiful boat. 

That’s got to be the first time I’ve been on the water that I haven’t come away with bruises everywhere from bumping in to hard surfaces!

Check it out online at www.otgwakesports.com

I’ll have video of Brent from sales, Lisa from traffic, Sabrina from news and Craig from on air doing their thing on the water as soon as I have a bunch of time to edit it!

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THE PROS & CONS OF DATING IN THE WORKPLACE

Pros

It’s a convenient place to meet
You’re able to establish a relationship prior to dating
You spend a lot of time together
Your work environment is happier
You have someone to lean on during stressful times on the job

Cons

You can become the subject of office gossip
Jealousy can arise
You can spend too much time together
You may lose your objectivity and bring personal feelings to business decisions
Breaking up is hard to do

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Two hated sports figures happen to be in the news these days — Lebron James and Brett Favre.

LeBron recently did an interview with GQ magazine where he said, among other things, that he hated Cleveland when he was growing up and that (surprisingly) he could see playing there again.

Favre ended his prima donna act when three of his teammates flew to Mississippi to beg him out of retirement. (What kind of guy would demand that his friends grovel before returning to the team? A selfish one …)

Well, according to TotalProSports.com, here are some sports figures possibly hated more than Lebron and Favre:

Roger Clemens — One of the best pitchers in the history of the Red Sox went to the rival Yankees and won two World Series.

Carlos Boozer — The Cleveland Cavaliers released Boozer as a restricted free agent, with the understanding that he would immediately re-sign with the Cavs to a new lucrative contract. Well, he saw this as the perfect opportunity to take Cleveland’s good faith gesture and use it as an opportunity to test the free agency waters. Utah offered him almost $12 million per year. Boozer cut and ran.

Art Modell — Yet another Cleveland sob story … As owner of the Cleveland Browns, he assured fans many times that he would never move their team. But in 1996, he did just that, moving the team to Baltimore. Even though Cleveland got a new NFL team in 1999, the damage has been done.

Nick Saban — After a successful stint as head coach of the LSU Tigers, he bolted to the NFL for a couple of crappy years leading the Miami Dolphins. When he returned to college football, he was hired as the head coach of rival Alabama, where he has enjoyed stellar seasons the past two years, including a national championship in January of 2010.

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In a recent survey, AskMen.com asked some questions about guys and dating:

How many dates should a man pay for?

42 percent — The majority of them until the relationship is established
26 percent — The majority of them for the duration of the relationship
12 percent — All of them
19 percent — No more than the woman does
1 percent — None, the woman should pay for them all

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At some point in time, all men have tried both electric shavers and regular razor blades to see what works best for them.

Of course, there are many advantages and disadvantages to both.

Electric Shavers

Pros — The obvious advantage to an electric shaver is the ease of use. Most electric shavers can be charged and work wirelessly. Another advantage of an electric razor is speed. You can quickly turn on your shaver and begin shaving without the preparation time needed when using a regular razor.

Cons — Price can be a problem as some models are very expensive. Also, electric razors don’t shave as closely as razor blades. Electric razors can also cause razor burn on your neck if you have sensitive skin.

Regular Shavers

Pros — Regular razors cut closer than an electric razor and offer a smoother shave. If you have sensitive skin, a regular razor can actually be better for your skin and reduce razor burn.

Cons — Razor blades require more time to shave in the morning and require shaving cream and lather time. You also have to be more careful when shaving with a regular razor than you do with an electric shaver to prevent cutting yourself.

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Are you a real man? That all depends on whether or not you’ve seen the following 10, pre-2000s movies.

If there are any flicks on this list that you have not seen, you need to rent them right away.

10. Bloodsport (1988)
9. Top Gun (1986)
8. RoboCop (1987)
7. Goodfellas (1990)
6. Cobra (1986)
5. Reservoirs Dogs (1992)
4. Full Metal Jacket (1987)
3. Animal House (1978)
2. Predator (1987)
1. Die Hard (1988)

The forecast is changing for the province today.  A break from the heat with the highs only going in to the 20’s…not mid-30’s.  It will probably be a bit easier to sleep tonight, for which I’m grateful, but I hope this doesn’t mean the end of summer just yet. 

The province is freaked about the weather change because lightening is in the forecast…which of course means more forest fires.

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Had a chance to ride 3 Kawasaki motorcycles from Valley Moto Sport yesterday…check out our MotorcyGalz.com blog to see the video!  Thank you Barry!!!

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We’re going out with the Off The Grid crew this morning when we get off the air.  Ross Rebagliati is part of the team that’s taking people out on the water to teach waterskiing and wakeboarding.  Not sure if I really want to put a bathingsuit on in front of my co-workers…will tell the tales tomorrow!

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10 TIPS FOR GOING GREEN

1. Use less water. You can install aerators on faucets and install low-flow shower heads to reduce water use indoors. Replace older toilets, as they typically use less water than modern units.

2. Choose the right paint. Standard paint emits VOC’s (volatile organic compounds), which can affect the air quality in your home and impact your health. Low VOC paint can now be found at most home improvement stores.

3. Repurpose your furniture. Paint or refinish old tables, dressers, mirrors or frames instead of buying new ones.

4. Recycle and reuse. Find out which items are recyclable in your community and set up bins in your home or garage to separate those items, if necessary.

5. Go green in your kitchen. Look for organically grown products and produce that contain no chemical fertilizers or pesticides, which are harmful to you and the environment.

6. Choose cleaning products carefully. Non-toxic, biodegradable cleaning products are now becoming mainstream.

7. Update your appliances. Energy Star is a voluntary labeling program implemented by the Environmental Protection Agency to help consumers identify energy efficient products that also help to reduce greenhouse gas emissions.

8. Go green in your yard and garden. Plant native trees, shrubs and plants that are acclimated to your soil and climate. Look for drought-tolerate plants to reduce the need for regular watering.

9. Use solar energy. The technology for these systems is still considered very expensive to the average homeowner but the US Department of Energy is working to make solar power more affordable and offers tax incentives for qualifying programs.

10. Stop the mailbox madness. By opting out of direct mailing lists, we can greatly reduce this tremendous amount of waste.

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Half of women polled recently say they would rather go without sex for the summer than gain 10 pounds. And a quarter of men feel the same way.

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Being a girl or boy friend involves a lot of give and take.

And there are also some basic rights to keep in mind as your relationship deepens:

1. You have the right to remain silent. You have the right to keep some things to yourself … to have diaries, e-mail accounts, etc., that are only for you.

2. You have the right to avoid parenting. 

3. You have the right to ask but not to tell.  Relationships die if they don’t progress — or they stagnate. Sometimes change needs to happen, and you have to ask for it. Maybe you need him/her to go out less. Maybe heshe needs you to be more affectionate. Maybe you need him/her to be nicer to your family. It’s up to you to ask …

4. You have the right to dates … if he/she cannot afford a dinner date it will be up to him/her to get creative. People like to be taken out.

5. You have the right to clean up after yourself and only yourself.

6. You have the right to satisfaction.

7. You have the right to see your friends.

8. You have the right to be right … and wrong. Everyone argues. It’s a fact of relationships. And someone is always right and someone is always wrong. But that’s not the point. How you approach arguments and their resolution can define you in a relationship.

9. You have the right to judge and be judged. People who are overly judgmental are annoying, but people who don’t have an opinion on anything are worse.

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Researchers from Cornell University have discovered a new weird difference between men and women …

Men are more likely to cheat if they are economically dependent on their female partners — whereas women are less likely to cheat if they depend on their men.

So, guys with “sugar mommas” are cheaters — and women with “sugar daddies” stick around.

Study author Christin Munsch suggests the following explanation: “It may be that men who make less money than their partners are more unhappy and cheat because they are unhappy, not necessarily because they make less money.”

Ironically, men who make significantly more than their female partners are also more likely to cheat.

“At one end of the spectrum, making less money than a female partner may threaten men’s gender identity by calling into question the traditional notion of men as breadwinners,” Munsch said. “At the other end of the spectrum, men who make a lot more money than their partners may be in jobs that offer more opportunities for cheating like long work hours, travel, and higher incomes that make cheating easier to conceal.”

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According to BroBible.com, here are some cardinal rules for visiting Las Vegas:

What Happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas — This is a cliche … but it’s an important cliche. If you don’t keep your mouth shut about the trip when you get home, nobody will ever want to go anywhere with you ever again.

Stay in a Respectable Hotel — You want to stay at a good hotel because the good hotels have good pools. In general, the more expensive the hotel, the hotter the people you’ll see there.

Bring Money, and Lots of It — You can’t do Vegas on $100 a day. You’ll spend that just greasing the bouncer and paying the cover charge to get into a club. The city is expensive. Get a second job and save up.

Set a Limit for Yourself — While you should bring enough money to get through it all, set a gambling limit and stick to it. You don’t want to ruin the rest of your trip by dwelling on how you won’t be able to buy food this month.

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There have been studies done that show how the Disney princesses affect little girls, turning them into little man-hunting zombies.

Good thing little boys don’t have to worry about noble comic book heroes, right? Wrong.

According to a new study from the University of Massachusetts, today’s superheroes send wrong image to boys. It’s causing a “macho” masculine stereotype that’s not healthy for relationships.

“There is a big difference in the movie superhero of today and the comic book superhero of yesterday,” said lead researcher Sharon Lamb. “Today’s superhero is too much like an action hero who participates in non-stop violence; he’s aggressive, sarcastic and rarely speaks to the virtue of doing good for humanity.

“When not in superhero costume, these men, like Ironman, exploit women, flaunt bling and convey their manhood with high-powered guns.”

“The comic book heroes of the past did fight criminals,” she continued, “but these were heroes boys could look up to and learn from because outside of their costumes, they were real people with real problems and many vulnerabilities.”